This week in Connecticut is always one of reflection and remembrance. Overall, this time of year can be pretty difficult for some people, when all you have is happy being thrown in your face all the time. While I usually like to make you laugh, this week, I feel more like making you appreciative in this week's Deep Thoughts Thursday with The Boozy Weathergirl. So here goes...
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If you're complaining about how busy your life is, especially because of the kid's schedules, remember there are many people out there who wish they had children to cart around, listen to laugh in the back of the car and cuddle with at night.
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If you're feeling worn down, but you're healthy, remember that there are lots of people out there suffering with illnesses - some apparent, some not as visible - who have a hard time getting out of bed every day.
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If the host of your holiday dinner is planning something you're not a huge fan of, remember that not everyone is going to have a big feast on their table this year. Some of them might not even have a table to sit at.
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If you're disappointed that you couldn't find the best and biggest gifts that your children asked for, remember (and remind those old enough to understand) that some people are just hoping for the miracle of a charitable organization, or the generosity of friends, so they can have at least one present for each of their children.
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If your family is getting on your nerves, remember that someone else lost a family member this year and is wishing they could have one more argument or laugh with that person.
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If you're getting upset about politics, especially recent policies brought about by this pandemic, remember how lucky we are to have the right to choose what we want to do in this country. And if you see a person who serves in any branch of the military, go out of your way to thank them.
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If you're pissed that it's snowing, and you can't do the 100 things you had planned that day, remember that sometimes the world sends a sign that it's time to rest and reset. Put down the phone, turn off the computer and snuggle up to watch a movie. Or visit a neighbor who might not have anyone home with whom they'd like to spend time. It's amazing what comes from unplanned experiences.
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If you are frustrated by your job, remember that there are so many people out there who are unemployed. And there are far more who need to work two or three jobs, just to make ends meet. Be thankful for your intelligence, your strength and your ability to do what you need to provide for yourself and/or your family. That being said, take time to think about where you are right now and where you want to be. If this job isn't getting you there, don't be afraid to look for one that suits you better.
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If you're looking around your house, listing all the things you'd like to change in it, remember that you are safe, warm and protected. Some people might only have one or two rooms to house their entire family. Some may be looking for a shelter, just to get them through the season.
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If you are sad, try to think of a happy memory. Or pull up a beloved and funny video on YouTube. Or call a friend or family member and ask them to do something silly. Or put on your favorite song and dance around your kitchen until you are smiling. Because laughter really is the best medicine - for just about anything.
None of this is meant to bring you down. I just think that sometimes, we need a reminder of how good we've got it. If you're sitting at a computer reading this post, you probably have it better than most. So this holiday season, I challenge you to really look at the world around you, and see where you can help. Help doesn't always have to mean money. Help can be knowing a friend is down and just listening. Help can be seeing a struggling family and finding discreet ways you can help ease their burden. Or help can be as simple as waiting that extra second while you hold the door for someone. Pay attention. Be kind. It's as simple as that.
The more you give, the more you receive
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